Small Talk Conversation Starters for Work Events and Networking
Small talk is a skill, and a learnable one
Most people dread the first thirty seconds of a conversation with a stranger. A handful of reliable openers and follow-ups removes most of the stress.
Practise conversationWhat makes small talk work
Good small talk is not about being interesting; it is about being interested. Ask an open question, listen, and follow up on one detail. Share something small about yourself in return so it feels like a conversation, not an interview.
Openers for events
“What brought you to this event?”
“Have you been to this conference before?”
“What was the best session you attended today?”
“How do you know the host?”
“What are you working on at the moment?”
“Any good recommendations for the area?”
Keep it going, then leave kindly
Follow up on a detail
“You mentioned a move to Lisbon. How is that going?”
Use the FORD topics
Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams.
Share and ask
Answer briefly, then pass the question back.
Exit gracefully
“It was great meeting you. I’m going to grab a coffee. Enjoy the rest of the evening!”
Frequently asked questions
What if I run out of things to say?
Ask a follow-up about something they said, or comment on the setting.
How do I join a group?
Approach with a smile, listen for a moment, then add a short comment.
Which topics should I avoid?
Politics, religion and salary at first meetings, unless the other person raises them.
How do I get better at it?
Practise one short conversation a day, at the coffee shop or in the lift.